Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Trash that wedding gown

Here's an article I thought you would enjoy...

Down with the gown

Tracy Frank, The Forum

Stacey Larson perched on a 5-inch ledge about 3 feet off the ground, her elegant wedding gown a stark contrast with the rusted metal building she leaned against.

She tried to effect a serene expression while the sun blinded her; she fought to maintain balance as photographer Shawn Coulter snapped her picture from various angles.

Less than an hour into the photo shoot, Larson’s $800 dress was covered in dirt. The formerly brilliant cream lacework along the bottom had turned a muted gray.

But she had some stunning photographs to show for it.

Coulter, who owns Coulter Photography in Fargo with his wife, Shellee, offers brides “Trash the Dress” photography sessions.

After the wedding day, Coulter takes artistic photos that will at a minimum get the dress dirty. It may also be snagged, torn or destroyed – depending on how far the bride wants to go.

“The brides that have done this have just had a blast,” Coulter said. “It’s very relaxed because there’s nothing else to worry about that day.”

Coulter, who describes his style as photojournalism infused with fashion, has photographed brides sitting in the middle of Broadway, lounging in a field and walking in a lake.

“At first I was a little taken aback, thinking, ‘I don’t want to wreck my dress,’ but I thought, ‘Why not?’ It was a great opportunity to get the dress out again and not be stressed out,” said Tara Kempfer of Fergus Falls, Minn., who, with her husband, Randy, participated in a “Trash the Dress” session with Coulter in October.

Larson’s photo session also included shots of her lying in a field of dandelions, draped over a railroad track and sprawled across a fallen tree on the edge of the Red River.

Larson said her husband and parents weren’t thrilled with the idea, but she thinks they’ll change their minds when they see the photos.

“I’m just going to box it up, and it will probably never get worn again,” Larson said of her dress. “My friend did it and I loved the pictures.”

The idea behind the new wedding photography trend is it gives women more than one use for an expensive gown.

“I wanted her to do it,” said Larson’s sister, Jamie Johnson, who accompanied her on the shoot. “You actually get more use out of it and more money’s worth getting the pictures.”

It also gives brides, and in some cases grooms, a chance to express themselves in ways posed cookie-cutter photographs don’t allow.

“We could let our personalities shine and have fun with it,” Kempfer said. Coulter recommends that grooms who want to participate buy insurance for their rented tuxedos.

The Coulters started Coulter Photography in September 2003. Shawn Coulter also does wedding photography, senior portraits and photographs of children. He has been doing “Trash the Dress” photography for a year.

“I had seen a lot of these being done out West and I thought it was time to bring the Fargo-Moorhead market up to date with wedding photography,” Coulter said.

John Michael Cooper, a Las Vegas wedding photographer, is credited with starting the trend. Some brides cut up their dresses. One popular Cooper photograph shows a bride wearing a wedding gown engulfed in flames.

Coulter said Photoshop was used to create that image.

Not all “Trash the Dress” sessions destroy the gown. In most cases it can be cleaned and preserved, Coulter said.

“I like to do them as high fashion as opposed to just shredding the dress or getting it really dirty,” he said.

Though Kempfer’s dress was stained and had been submerged in water, it was like new after she had it cleaned, she said.

“It was a nice way to show (Randy) that it wasn’t about the dress and it wasn’t about the material things. It was about him and me and if the dress got dirty it didn’t matter,” Kempfer said.

Coulter recently started offering “Trash the Prom Dress” photo sessions.

“It’s a way to get some very high-fashion photos where they’re looking their best,” Coulter said. “It’s something that they can look back on later and think, ‘I was pretty good-looking.’”

Business profile

Coulter Photography

- Location: 14 Roberts St., Fargo

- Owners: Shawn and Shellee Coulter

- Contact: (701) 491-0489 or shawn@shawncoulterphotography.com

- Web Site: www.shawncoulterphotography.com

Original article from www.in-forum.com

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Planning a bridal shower

The bridal shower is an event to honor the bride-to-be, and planning one does not have to be a difficult task. Here are a few things to keep in mind when planning a bridal shower:
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Choose a theme for the shower. Try to find one that reflects the bride's personality or interests such as wine tasting, gourmet cooking or travel. There are also more "traditional" themes such as lingerie or a bridal tea.

Find a location to accommodate your theme. A restaurant, day spa, hotel, or private home are all good choices. Many restaurants have private rooms you can use for free as long as you are purchasing food from them.

Decide on a time frame. Depending on the theme, guests and activities you have planned, most showers last between 2 to 4 hours. It helps to have a rough outline of what you are planning to include such as:
  • Arrival and introduction of guests
  • Food/beverages
  • Games
  • Gift opening
  • Cake serving
Send invitations - it's best to have the bride help you create a guest list so you do not leave anyone out. Shower invitations should be sent out after the wedding invitations have been mailed so you can confirm everyone on the guest list has been invited to the wedding.

Plan a menu to be served at the shower. This does not have to be a complicated decision. If you are using a restaurant or hotel, they will have limited choices for you to choose from, and if you are using a private home, you can stick to one type of food (i.e. appetizers, full meal, desserts, etc.) Consider the time of day when planning food for your shower. You don't want to serve dinner at 2:00 PM. Most bridal showers incorporate a cake.

Select games to play at the bridal shower. Games help all of the guests feel inv©Carlson Craft Bridal Shower Gameolved and help keep the event moving. It's also a great way to help strangers get to know one another. See example here of Bridal Shower Bingo.

Choose decor to fit your theme. Look for centerpieces and props as well as table linens and wall hangings. Purchase a take home gift for your guests in conjunction with your theme such as personalized wine glasses for a wine tasting, or a mini cook book for a gourmet cooking theme. You can include the bride and groom's names and wedding date to make it a keepsake.

Stay organized, use your creativity and have a fantastic bridal shower!

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Monday, May 19, 2008

Music Advice for your Wedding

I came across an article on the Post-Gazette called "Music Advice for your Wedding". It is written by Jessie Rosen from The Knot. I couldn't have said it better, so here is the article below:

Music is a key factor during almost every moment of your reception, from the cocktail hour to dinner and your first dance. So make it count and try to avoid some of these common missteps.


Skipping the Sound Check


With destination weddings becoming more popular, brides and grooms have to consider making remote locations microphone-friendly. Crashing waves could easily drown out a string quartet or trio of flutes, and a windy mountain peak could render even the strongest voice silent. Ask the site manager about acoustic limitations. And be flexible; though you may have your heart set on a harp, not being able to hear it will be far more disappointing.


The Unending First Dance


You may have fallen in love with "Freebird," by Lynyrd Skynyrd, but imagine how long nine minutes and eight seconds will feel while you're dancing with everyone watching you. Pay careful attention to your song's length before committing to it. Even four minutes can be brutal if you're just rocking back and forth. If your heart is set on a certain ballad, look into having it cut down to a reasonable length. You can either work on this with your DJ; find a local music studio; or, if you know your way around iTunes, you can download the song and cut it yourself. See a list of favorite first dance songs at TheKnot.com/music.


Letting the DJ or Band Take Total Control


While you should feel comfortable letting your band or DJ guide the music, providing a play list (or, better yet, a no-play list) will make you feel less anxious about their song choices. You certainly don't want a song with painful associations to pop up unexpectedly. Start by consulting with your DJ on just how many songs will fill the night; then sit down with your fiance and go through your MP3 collection to create a master music list. You are each allowed veto power, of course.


Blowing out the Speakers


Despite the presence of alcohol and all your college friends, the reception shouldn't resemble a frat party. Club-level volume will frustrate older family members and make it impossible for your guests to talk to one another. When creating the play list with your band or DJ, be sure to give input on the volume for various transitions: low for chatting during dinner, and loud for the final song of the night, "Livin' on a Prayer," by Bon Jovi. On the day of the wedding, ask a bridesmaid or your day-consultant to keep volume on her radar. One of them can serve as the point person for dealing with the band or DJ based on your requests.


Playing Inappropriate Songs During Dinner


Sure, you want to hear all of your favorites from your iTunes collection, but don't destroy your sit-down dinner because you had to fit in "I Wanna Be Sedated," by the Ramones. Music should match the mood of the moment. Stick with instrumentals or soft ballads during dinner, and then transition into the dance party with something more upbeat. Work with your music pros to pick an appropriate number of dinner-friendly selections so your guests can digest without Van Halen screaming "Right Now!" in their ears.


Rocking out to R-rated Songs


Yes, these are more liberal times, but be careful not to confuse progressive with perverted. This is your day, and you shouldn't focus on pleasing everyone with your musical selections; however, there's a glaring line you should avoid crossing. "The Humpty Dance," by Digital Underground -- fair. "Thong Song," by Sisqo -- pushing it. Beyond blatant profanity, really consider the song's lyrics and meaning. There may be a very innocent inside joke behind your choice of "The B**** Is Back," by Elton John, but keep in mind that your flower girl will be listening too and probably isn't in on the joke. Keep the songs to a sensible PG-13 so all age groups will have fun and feel comfortable.


Too Much of a Good Thing


You both may truly love late '80s hair bands, but if Grandma listens to five full hours of Def Leppard, she might actually go deaf. Including your favorite genre is perfectly fine, but do so in moderation. Your wedding is a celebration of your relationship, but it's also a gift to share with family and friends. Keep them in mind when developing your play list. Play a thank-you song for your parents, such as Frank Sinatra's "Chicago," or "Thank You for the Music," by ABBA. Seeing them enjoy the night will be well worth a little Bobby Darin.

For the original article, visit http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08140/878730-355.stm

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Monday, May 12, 2008

Wedding shoes are important too!

Shoes are the finishing touch to every outfit - including a wedding gown. Every bride takes time to find the perfect pair to complete her dress, and her bridesmaids do too!

Shoes can show a piece of your personality - high fashion, traditional, comfortable, casual. The great thing about shoes is that you can choose a style that fits you. There are no rules that say you have to wear 4" stilettos or satin covered heels.

Many brides opt for dyeable fabric covered shoes. One nice reason to choose them is that after your wedding you can always dye them. Dying them black is a great option because it can go with almost any outfit. Many bridesmaids also use dyeable fabric shoes so they can find a perfect match for their bridesmaid dress. Dyeable fabric shoes do not have to cost a fortune. In fact, Payless Shoe Source carries them.

Are you in to high fashion? I found great resource that includes bridal shoe styles from Vera Wang to Stuart Weitzman at http://www.onewed.com/bridal-shoes/. You find the style and they link you to the seller. Don't look for a deep discount though. These are top quality and priced selections.

A new trend in bridal shoe wear are flip-flops. Now, I have to say that I personally do not find these attractive. I think a bridal gown deserves something a bit more formal. But flip-flops seem to be popular, especially with outdoor weddings. Check out www.savvysneaks.com for some creative flip-flop and sneaker style shoes for weddings.

Whatever your style, here are a few tips when choosing shoes for your wedding:

  • Don't wear heels that are higher than you are used to. This is not the time to go from flats to 4" heels. You want to actually be able to walk down the aisle on your wedding day.
  • Break in your shoes! So many brides don't do this and the end up with sore feet on their wedding day. Just stick them on your feet while your walking around the house for a week or two before the wedding.
  • Try them on before and after you leave the store. Keep your receipt and try them on inside your house so you don't wear on them. This way you can still change your mind and return them.
  • Try them on with your wedding dress - especially when you get it hemmed. You want to make sure you like them with your dress and that your wedding gown falls to the right length with them on.

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The Best Wedding Toast Ever!

The wedding toast is one of the treasured traditions in American weddings. It's a time when friends and family show how much they love and cherish the bride and groom and offer them best wishes in their new life together.

However, I can definitely say I've never seen it done like this. Check out this video from YouTube posted by Amy - the bride in the video. I hope this sparks some creative ideas for future weddings.

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Friday, May 2, 2008

Eco-Friendly Wedding Contest

Eco-Friendly Weddings: Online Bridal Boutique Launches Contest to Find Best Green Wedding Ideas

With the growing popularity of eco-friendly weddings, Beautiful-Bridal.com has launched a contest that challenges brides to come up with original suggestions for green weddings.

Virginia Beach, VA (PRWEB) April 30, 2008 -- Beautiful-Bridal.com has issued a green challenge to all brides-to-be. The online bridal boutique has launched a contest in honor of Earth Day asking brides to submit original and unique eco-friendly wedding ideas. The winner will receive a free bridal tiara valued at $55.

Kathleen Terrana, owner of Beautiful Bridal, says the contest (called "Brides Make Smart Choices") is intended to make us more mindful of our consuming habits. She says weddings can be extremely wasteful if they aren't planned with the environment in mind.

"The choices you make at your wedding will eventually affect me, and the choices I make will eventually affect you, because they all impact on the environment. So it makes sense to share our environmentally-friendly wedding ideas with each other and celebrate the happiest day of our lives in a responsible way that leaves a positive legacy for our children," says Terrana.

The movement towards green weddings is gaining momentum as more and more brides include environmental choices in almost every aspect of their planning. They're choosing, for example, second-hand or rented wedding gowns, rings made of recycled gold, a reception serving local food and drink, hybrid limos for the bridal party, organic in-season flowers, a honeymoon that's close to home, etc.

Ms Terrana has come up with a few of her own suggestions for environmentally-friendly weddings to help inspire contest entrants:

  • Make personalized wedding favors by decoratively wrapping up garden seeds or tree seedlings, then customize them with blessings, poems, or personal messages.

  • Use biodegradable or recycled paper wedding invitations, wrapping paper, ribbons and gift cards.

  • Give your attendants jewelry made from recycled metals and stones.

  • Book the wedding and reception within walking distance of each other so car travel is reduced.

The "Brides Make Smart Choices" contest closes on June 30, 2008. Details on how to submit ideas to the eco-friendly wedding contest can be found on the Beautiful Bridal blog: http://beautiful-bridal.blogspot.com/

About Beautiful Bridal:

Beautiful Bridal began in 1995 as a retail boutique in Virginia Beach, VA, offering discount bridal tiaras and wedding veils to discriminating brides on a budget. In 2005, owner Kathleen Terrana took Beautiful-Bridal.com online and expanded her product line to include designer veils, discount bridal jewelry, bridesmaid jewelry, and the very popular matching tiara and jewelry sets.

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Thursday, May 1, 2008

New Wedding Invitation Collection

Invito Cards has a new collection of wedding invitations!

The Chloe B Wedding collection features contemporary designs in classic shades.

Visit us today to see the Chloe B Wedding collection at http://www.invitocards.cceasy.com/.


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